Monday, November 28, 2005

The truth finally unveils

to my utter surprise, astonishment and blah blah .. yesterday a few of my friends proved my worst fear to be real ..
"YOU DONT SPEAK!!!!"
in many books they have a saying that goes "Silence is gold" but for me silence is who i am. I cant talk .. its simple and it is like that .. it hasnt changed, it cant change and it wont change ... even if i try i cant help it .. talking makes the stupid man inside me come out and face me .. i am afraid of him ... he tells me to shut up even before i have said something ... the only time i can talk is infront of ppl who i konw will not take me for the words that come out of my mouth but for the person who i am ... but the such ppl can be counted on fingertips
any advice how can i  come out of the slient Bob situation that i am in at the moment .. plz jolt it down in the comments
thanks
*sigh*

20 comments:

Yas said...

The prophet Sallallaahu 'alayhi wasallam said:
Whoever believes in Allah and thr last day should either speak good or remain silent.

Another one is to think before speaking. that really helps.

The above is obviously infront of people.

Infront of your close ones, sub chalta hai.

Hope that helped.

Yas said...

With regards to the saying, Silence is gold, we have a saying of the prophet Sallallaahu 'alayhi wasallam in which he says, Whoever remains silent is successful. In other words, Silence = success.

yasir said...

thanks for ur kind words :)
but my friends think i am freak coz i dont talk .. and by dont talk i mean i dont talk at all ... and someone once said to me " u are a brick wall, there is no use talking to u" .. how should i react, i dont know ....

Yas said...

How should you react? Well for a start whoever called you a brick wall must have been some rude idiot, coz its nobody's buisness whether you talk or not talk!

If you have nothing good or beneficial to say, then its always best to keep quite. So think to yourself, do I really need to talk? If the answer is yes, then talk, otherwise keep quiet.

I know what its like coz I don't talk to people too (excluding family and co.). When people try and strike up a conversation with me, I just smile and say nothing.

There must be a reason why you dont talk to your friends? Or if you want to stop talking to them at all, dont just shut them out. Do it step by step. Hope it helped. Aur juch?

By the way I made a mention of you on my blog. Hope you dont mind.

Yas said...

* Sorry I meant aur kuch?

yasir said...

thanks again for the good advice :)
that person really is a stupid idiot who called me that :D
and i think i am better this way .. if i dont talk much .. i dont say many wrong things .. and no saying many wrong things is a good thing to do .. i read ur blog and i am okay with my name there .. i feel proud of it to have envoked someone to talk about this .. thanks again :)

Yas said...

You know there was a Maulana who used to say, Logo 9people) ko jaaru maro. Ya know what that means innit? Coz people are going to say everything. You cant please everyone can you? The main thing is to please Allah Taalah!

You're right, not sayng much is better. There is an arabic saying which goes: Whoever talks too much makes way so many mistakes/errs.

Hehe dont thank me dude. I should be thanking you for your post as it really made me think!

Fi Amanillah!

Anonymous said...

may be ur a stupid idiot!!

yasir said...

lol .. may be i am .. may be u are

Anonymous said...

i am not but now i think u definitely r.....n annoying n illmannered tooo....

yasir said...

i am stupid idiot
i am annoying
i am irritating
i am illmannered
i am boring
i am "a brick wall"
i am Yasir Latif
thats who i am
what can u say about urself?

Anonymous said...

that u shud ask face to face...n i surely willl answer ur question....

Yas said...

:D

yasir said...

dont laff :/

Yas said...

Sorry about this. I wasnt actually laughing at any of this. It was all he maybe's that made me :D
Sorry!

Anonymous said...

hahahahahahahaaaaaa

yasir said...

yas u can laff, u dont know nething
but YOU shouldnt be the one laffing okay!

Anonymous said...

y shudnt i be laffing??

Anonymous said...

chk out the difference bwteen "u dont speak" n "u dont talk"

yasir said...

wotever